In the newest episode of "When I Was Homeless," Kiara Cunningham, our special guest, offers a personal look into her family's struggles and the unexpected directions their lives took. The episode, focusing on familial homelessness, starts with Kiara recalling what seemed like an ordinary return to New York following a family trip to Florida. However, her narrative quickly shifts as she describes the initial phase of their homelessness, triggered by unforeseen events, including the emergence of the COVID-19 pandemic.
Kiara's story begins with a new residence in a New York suburb—a symbol of stability until both she and her sister Kennedy unexpectedly fell ill. Believing it might be early cases of COVID-19, this initial hurdle was just the beginning of their challenging journey. As New York became one of the first states to implement shutdowns, the family found themselves in a rapidly evolving situation. This led to the bold decision to consider living on the road, contemplating subletting their home for an RV adventure across the United States.
Gabby Cunningham, the host and Kiara's mother, offers her perspective on the allure of RV living—a dream filled with exploration and freedom. Yet, as Kiara recounts, this dream faced harsh realities. Their choice led them back to Florida, inadvertently beginning a challenging yet enlightening period in their lives.
The initial ominous indication of the difficulties ahead was the abrupt cancellation of their Airbnb in Clearwater, Florida. Compelled to change course, the family traveled to Orlando, where Kiara's sister, Kyra, was afflicted by a serious illness that led to paralysis. This time, characterized by Kiya's month-long stay in the ICU at Celebration Hospital, vividly illustrated a scene of fear and helplessness.
Kiara openly shares the emotional and logistical challenges of living a transient lifestyle. The need for medical care necessitated frequent moves around Florida, creating relentless financial pressure. Balancing a mortgage in New York while securing accommodations close to Kyra's rehabilitation was a complex task, fraught with unpredictable expenses and inconsistent income. This financial uncertainty, combined with the emotional strain of family illness, created a deep sense of vulnerability that Kiara vividly conveys in the podcast.
Gabby elaborates on the idea of homelessness as a temporary yet significant experience. The family's situation mirrors a larger story of families residing in motels because of unaffordable housing costs, a predicament exacerbated by the weekly costs of motel accommodations. Kiara underscores the difficulties they encountered, likening them to the film "The Florida Project," which depicts similar tales of endurance.
In the face of challenges, Kiara discusses the significance of personal development and discovering comfort. Engaging in activities such as art, self-care, and walking with dogs served as her stabilizers, aiding in overcoming feelings of powerlessness. Additionally, an unforeseen travel opportunity appeared as a promising light, presenting the chance to escape repetitive instability.
Kiara also discusses her difficulties in acquiring identification in Florida because of not having a permanent address—highlighting a common issue for many in similar circumstances. However, by ultimately obtaining her ID and seeking educational and career paths, she demonstrates resilience and adaptability.
The discussion provides listeners with valuable insights into the frequently overlooked aspects of homelessness. Kiara highlights that homelessness can impact anyone and calls for a more comprehensive understanding beyond common stereotypes. Her narrative encourages reflection on how support systems can be structured to aid transient families—an idea that Gabby passionately supports.
The episode concludes with Kiara offering guidance to young adults dealing with hardships. She emphasizes the importance of discovering purpose and happiness in small, meaningful activities. Her narrative serves as a strong reminder that homelessness, though difficult, is just one part of a broader range of experiences—not a defining identity—and that showing empathy and taking action to support others can have a significant impact.
"When I Was Homeless," hosted by Gabby Cunningham, provides a space to celebrate stories of resilience and promote compassionate solutions to homelessness. This episode, highlighting Kiara Cunningham, exemplifies the bravery required to share personal experiences and the persistent hope that supports those facing uncertain challenges. For more resources, discussion prompts, and to listen further, visit https://www.formybonuschild.org/kiarasperspective